 
 I'm just sayin that we can't let paranoia get the best of us.... Do any of us want to give that kind of satisfaction to 'he who shall not be named'?
Here's one I'm sure you'll all enjoy!

 
 
 I understand that it's disturbing when others take photos and claim them as their own, but I would also imagine that there are millions out there who possess the skills to be coming around here and taking off with our pictures, but it seems that since this is now in our conscious awareness we have become hyper-aroused and fear has taken over. There are creeps and predators everywhere, hell every neighbourhood is loaded with them, even those whom we'd least want to believe its possible to be, they exist in every realm of the population, so what, do we lock ourselves up and never leave ours homes? Not wander the streets that are watched by some camera which in turn is monitored by only god knows who, what about every other organization that has access to not only your photo but personal information such as a drivers licence? By deleting our pictures, "which is a huge part of our enjoyment here on the forum", we not only let those who seek to distroy win, but we as a forum literally become crippled and the enjoyment will be gone...I respect everyone's choices, but I personally refuse to let anybody run me into a closet, my pictures will continue to go up for the enjoyment of my friends here, and if they're taken without my awareness then they are, who's to say they haven't been already, then so be it, I'm not going to let fear control what is out of my conrol anyways ( but if such a case should ever come to my awareness, then this Canadian would be kickin some serious Butt, Canadian style and that ain't a pretty site)
 I understand that it's disturbing when others take photos and claim them as their own, but I would also imagine that there are millions out there who possess the skills to be coming around here and taking off with our pictures, but it seems that since this is now in our conscious awareness we have become hyper-aroused and fear has taken over. There are creeps and predators everywhere, hell every neighbourhood is loaded with them, even those whom we'd least want to believe its possible to be, they exist in every realm of the population, so what, do we lock ourselves up and never leave ours homes? Not wander the streets that are watched by some camera which in turn is monitored by only god knows who, what about every other organization that has access to not only your photo but personal information such as a drivers licence? By deleting our pictures, "which is a huge part of our enjoyment here on the forum", we not only let those who seek to distroy win, but we as a forum literally become crippled and the enjoyment will be gone...I respect everyone's choices, but I personally refuse to let anybody run me into a closet, my pictures will continue to go up for the enjoyment of my friends here, and if they're taken without my awareness then they are, who's to say they haven't been already, then so be it, I'm not going to let fear control what is out of my conrol anyways ( but if such a case should ever come to my awareness, then this Canadian would be kickin some serious Butt, Canadian style and that ain't a pretty site)  
 

 
   
   
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 ) )  But I choose not to let this get me down.  You guys are the best bunch I have ever had the pleasure of meeting on-line, and I'm going to continue to share as much of my life with you as I can.  I always thought that people who "met" people on line were crazy....but never say never, 'cause now I count among my dearest friends some folks I have never laid eyes on.  Go figure.
 )  But I choose not to let this get me down.  You guys are the best bunch I have ever had the pleasure of meeting on-line, and I'm going to continue to share as much of my life with you as I can.  I always thought that people who "met" people on line were crazy....but never say never, 'cause now I count among my dearest friends some folks I have never laid eyes on.  Go figure. 
   
 

Voldemort, teehee You're probably right about him being pissed. *looking over shoulder*MHooch wrote:Boy, OEJ, I feel pretty sure Voldemort would be really PO'd to have one of his names applied to THAT creep.


(get it? He-who-should-not-be-named...??? OK, enough with the obscure Harry Potter references)
I always thought that people who "met" people on line were crazy....but never say never, 'cause now I count among my dearest friends some folks I have never laid eyes on. Go figure.
Love you all
Hooch


are you serious?! that's really cool, you guys complement each other so well. my brother just got married to a girl he met online and moved all the way to canada from KY. i don't know if i could be as trusting to actually start dating someone i meet online. i'm so paranoid, sometimes i don't trust my own shadow.Succub'Oz wrote: As for meeting people online....oh boy. Did you know OEJ and I met on Ebay?!! I thought the same thing you did, but I ended up moving from Ohio to Oregon. !!!!!!!!!

Exactly, HH, and Dutchess, I do understand your perspective as well and thanks for talking some sense back into me.Haunted Horseman wrote:I completely understand the importance of not being engulfed by fear, however, I don't feel comfortable right this second taking any chances with my kid's pictures. I will certainly leave up any pictures of myself or decorations that I have posted. If anyone is crazy enough to want to steal them, whatever. I really don't care. But my kids are a different matter. Sorry, that just how I feel right now. Maybe my feelings will change in time, infact my guess is they will. We'll see. Anyway, just my two cents.
 I guess every parent's worst nightmare is (God forbid!!) to have their children fall prey to some sick predator, and we do everything in our power to keep it from happening.  I'm not saying that one could get to my sons by viewing them on here, but the knowledge that we've had a character like that actually prowling this forum, just laying his eyes on my sons, makes me have to distance them from here.
   I guess every parent's worst nightmare is (God forbid!!) to have their children fall prey to some sick predator, and we do everything in our power to keep it from happening.  I'm not saying that one could get to my sons by viewing them on here, but the knowledge that we've had a character like that actually prowling this forum, just laying his eyes on my sons, makes me have to distance them from here.   ROCK ON, we shall!!!
  ROCK ON, we shall!!!